I met “jacob” on okcupid.
He was very charming and sweet. Then 2 weeks in he had to go to Europe on business. Low and behold there was a work accident and desperately nedded to borrow funds.
This guy gave himself away with the grammar, his unwillingness to send a selfie in the enviroment, and his voice on the phone lol
I kept it going until he asked for money. Then i told him he was full of lies, bullshit and excuses and that I was on to him from the beginning.